Monday, October 22, 2007

Married Life Survey

I'm so bored...

Take this survey
For the Married

How long have you been married?
234 Days, 22 hours, 42 Minutes and counting ;o)

Is this your first marriage?
Yes and last ;o)

Is it how you imagined it would be?
Better. He is everything I ever wished for in a mate.

What would you change?
About our marriage? Nothing. We are right where we want to be.

Are you married to your soulmate?
Most Definately

What do you argue about the most?
Usually him closing me out by taking work stress out on me, but not telling me why he's upset.

What do you see eye to eye on the most?
We've always been on the same page. Throughout our whole relationship.

Where did you meet your spouse?

Where was your first date?
My foot was broken and I couldn't drive, so he drove to my parent's house and we had dinner together with my mom as chaperone, hehe.

Where were you when you became engaged?
Our apartment. We picked up the rings (because we'd bought all 3) and he waited until we got home to officially propose..nothing romantic because he just isn't. (but I love him anyways)

Did you live together before Marriage?
Um..yes. We dated for less than a month before I moved in with him. He pushed for it actually.

What was your wedding song?
Hmm..we walked down the aisle to the traditional wedding "Here Comes the Bride" and our father/daughter/new husband dance was to "From This Moment On" by Shania Twain. O’Neill Brothers - A Day To Remember Volumes I and II

Who was in your wedding party?
Stacey Smith, Aaron Downs, and Fred Williams was our Honor Attendant

Do you get along with the in-laws?
I get the impression that his dad would have liked me, and Roger thinks so too. His real mother and I had the same birthday, so that was kind-of strange to swallow at first. I don't know much about his step-mother. I really like his grandparents, and his g-pa really likes me. Roger said he's never seen him act the way he does around me. :oD

Whats your view on Children?
Right now..we're being selfish. He doesn't want to share me, and I just don't feel adult enough.

Does your spouse feel the same way?
I think I answered that already..

Are you a 2 peas in a pod or opposites attract couple?
Two Peas in a Pod

Do you go out without your spouse?
I could if I wanted. He doesn't mind, he trusts me totally, and knows that I wouldn't do anything without telling him about it. ;o)

How long are you away from your spouse before you start to miss him/her?
Usually, less than 24 hours. Like he'll go camping with Aaron, or I'll be at my aunt's all day, and I'll be so ready to see him again that evening.

Have you ever compared your spouse to someone you have dated in the past?, actually..but I do compare him to my dad...he and my dad are so much alike, personality wise, that it's kind-of scarey sometimes. Roger has some major differences, that I am so happy for (like not being afraid to apologize when he's wrong).

Do you trust your Spouse?

Does your Spouse trust you?
With his heart and soul

How well do you know your spouses favorites?
*laughs* I know him better than he does.

How well does your spouse know your favorites?
He really can't keep up with himself, how could I expect him to even try to keep up with me?

Do you get along with your spouses friends?
I only know of one, and yes. Aaron would give the world to me if I asked him to. I think he's as devoted to me as my husband is.

Does your spouse get along with your friends?
I think least, no one's told me if they didn't like him. But, he's hard not to like. :o)

Did you go on a honeymoon?
Of sorts...we spent the weekend in a hotel room, with me sick as a dog. We had to make a trip to Walmart at 4am to get meds for me because I was so miserable. It was only by the grace of the higher that I even had a voice to do my vows, because I didn't have a voice all that morning, or the rest of the weekend.

Do you watch the same TV shows?
The only actual TV I watch is Dancing with the Stars, and he doesnt' really watch that with me.

Do you agree on Pizza toppings?
Not usually. He like supreme, but I can't eat the peppers. So I usually like meat combos.

Who takes out the trash?
He does.

Who does laundry?
He usually does the washing, but we fold together. I have to fold my clothes, because I can't stand how he folds, hehe.

Who cooks dinner?
I do, but he tries so hard to want to help, he usually ends up irritating me because he's in my way.

Who is the first one to wake up in the morning?
He is. He has to be to work at 6am.

Do you have any traditions?
Hmm...gaming with my family on Saturdays...?

Is there anyone in your spouses family that you cant stand?
I'm very unhappy with his uncle...but if you don't know that story, consult..."Emotional Blows: The Good, and The Bad"

Anyone in your spouses family you adore?
Probably his g-parents. They have been so helpful to us, and so supportive.

Do you know your spouses passwords/pins?
No..well...I do, but I don't. He tried for something, but then misspelled it, so I don't know how it's actually spelled. *shrugs* Why would I need to know that stuff anyways?

Does your spouse know your social security number?
He can't even remember how to spell my name most of the time! :oD

Do you ever nag your spouse?
When he's driving, yes. He speeds, and he's a hesitant driver...drives me batty.

Do you admit wrong doing?
Yes. We usually have an anger point, with me being angry, him forcing me to talk about it (even though I don't like talking when I'm angry, I shut down and shut him out usually), and then we discuss what made me angry or hurt my feelings or even hurt his. If it's his fault, he's not afraid to apologize many times, and if it's mine, I am not afraid to admit I was wrong.

Does your spouse?
Same as above.

How would you grade your sex life?
Hmm...according to the MPAA, intercourse that shows either a fully naked female or a female receiving pleasure, be it orally or otherwise, is not rated. So we're either TVMA, NC17, or X...I'm not sure what they call it these days.

When is the last time you or your spouse bought each other flowers?
I dont' believe I've ever bought him flowers..he's not into that kind of thing..and he only buys me flowers on V-day..because I make I said..not a romantic..:o(


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